My dairy- LOVE

I have a habit of writing my mind from few years. Sometimes poems, sometimes shayaris, sometimes just long texts.
By the way I share very few of them.
Because the moment I share something,
I feel very ashamed that I put so much efforts still I m unable not to be comprehend by people, but its ok,
We all are in the same page.
The day we are born we put efforts just to get recognised by people.
But anyone succeed?
I doubt!
Just put it this way.
We all fail but degrees of failures differ from one to one,
Or time to time.
So I have chosen a very relatable topic for this article.
LOVE.
Yes you read it write LOVE.
The most misunderstood emotion in my point of view.
Our whole life, our descisions, our goals every thing is sorrounded by emotion  that is love and that's a fact ,u know!
We come into existence just because of love of two individuals,
We grew up because of love.
Everything is just sorrounded by this emotion.
It can be love between two individuals,
It can be love between you and your work,
Apart from love the only emotion which exist is hate, which Is too opposite of love. Hate exist because of love, otherwise there is no hate.
U love someone  and suddenly your ego clashes with that individual and u start hating each other.
But what I have discovered so far is that the truly loving person is one which is love with the existence.
If you are in love u must be in love with everything which surrounds,
Other wise it is not love.
By the way that is the purest case.
Second one are those who are  not in love with existence but with individuals.
If the lover is desparate to get his love means he is no more in love with sorroundings.
The more he becomes desparate the more he hates sorroundings.
But that doesn't means I m not in favour of loving individuals.
We all need companionship.
But every relationship has a limitations,
To go beyond limitations u have to accept the idea of loving your existential nature.